I wanna hold your hand

In our sightseeing yesterday I spotted see several Indian men and teenaged boys holding hands with each other. In a society like India's where homosexuality is completely verboten and underground, this public display of intra-gender affection was definitely a surprise.

Apparently, two men holding hands with each other simply is a sign of affection and friendship, nothing more. The practice is more prevalent in South India, but sightseeing at the Taj Mahal brought together people from all over India, and indeed all over the world.

I wonder if the fact that gays aren't allowed to express themselves openly contributes to the idea that men can hold hands with each other and no one questions their sexuality. Two boys who hold hands don't have to worry that their peers will tease them for being gay. It doesn't have to be awkward when straight male friends physically express their friendship. It's not gay, it's simply bromance.